Thai Girls For Dating

Asian Girls Dating - Who Says Asian Girls Online Dating's Only For Losers? by Dao Jones
Asian Girls Dating is becoming very popular !
Until a good friend suggested that we try it. I had to admit, I was curious, but wasn't online dating for hideous losers and people who had something to hide? Wasn't it only for those who couldn't get a date the 'old fashioned' way?
I let my friend talk me into browsing some pictures on one of the more popular dating sites. I had to say, there were some pretty decent looking men on there.
Their profiles made them sound like fairly mentally stable human beings. I had to admit that the single thing was getting really tedious.
I had done the bar scene (as we all have), had friends try to 'hook me up' with some other dateless, picky single person (though, why some of them figured they had the right to be picky, I have no idea), with no success.
Online dating, here I come. I figured "What do I have to lose?" At the absolute worst, I'd meet more of the same type of losers that I'd been meeting. At best, I'd meet someone that I was actually compatible with who could also relate to me.
I had another dilemma with regard to the dating thing. I had been divorced for about a year at the time, and I have 2 children. Now, I know that you ladies who are divorced with kids can completely relate to what I'm saying here.
Finding a decent man is difficult enough, add to that the fact that I'm looking for a decent man whom I can trust to be around my children. Finding a man anywhere on this planet, that I wouldn't mind having my son emulate, is like trying to find a pair of Manolos on sale at Sears.
Anyway, I signed up with my friend on one of the 'bigger' dating sites. I met one dude, who said in his profile that he was 5'10", with an athletic build. He had an attractive face, he was divorced, and he had 3 children who were presently in his custody.
He sent me an email. We corresponded via email for about 2 weeks, after which time, we decided to meet for lunch at a local restaurant. He arrived at the restaurant earlier than I did. Early enough to have been already seated when I got there.
He barely stood up to shake my hand upon saying 'hello', which I thought was a little weird, but whatever. We talked from lunch time until the hour turned into dinner time.
The conversation was going so great, that we decided to stay for dinner, after which time, we decided to take in a movie. When the waitress brought the bill, he paid it and as we stood up to leave, I saw why he was already seated at the restaurant when I got there, and why he didn't fully stand up to greet me.
This dude was about 5'7" tall! Now, I'm 5'4", and in the boots that I was wearing, I was nearly taller than he was! I was so cheezed that I immediately lost my taste for the movie, made up some excuse about not feeling well all of a sudden (it must have been the fish), and boogied on atta' there.
On my way home, I thought, "Is this what online dating is? Dating loser after liar, never finding that 'one'?" I'm not saying that this dude was a loser because he was short.
The entire problem for me, exists in the fact that he LIED. I can't stand liars. If he lied about something as obvious as his height, what else would he lie about?
I learned very quickly that when it comes to online dating, one has to be extremely specific about what one wants, and one has to stick to her guns. Not that some of those who read those specifications give a hoot anyway.
I put in my profile that I wasn't interested in dating anyone over 45, and I got mail from men well past that age on a regular basis. I learned that I had to be assertive almost to the point of being aggressive when it came to dating online. I had to say what I meant, and mean what I said.
As a result, I'm dating someone (8 months now) who meets every piece of the criteria that I set out to find in a man. He's physically attractive (Yes, it DOES MATTER), and Lord help me, he's as smart as a computer (brains makes me weak).
He's also an amazing person inside, and he gets along well with my children. We live at completely opposite ends of the city, and if it weren't for bumping into each other online, I'm sure we would never have met.
I chose to think about online dating as follows; when I'm in a bar, and some loser tries out his lame pickup line on me, I have to respond to him in some manner, right? When I'm dating online, I don't have to respond at all! I have more men to choose from than those in my immediate circle of friends and associates, and am able to choose from as far away as I want to.
If you're thinking about doing the dating thing online, go for it! If you're smart, you have nothing to lose, and absolutely everything to gain.
I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com. A unique dating site with writing, dating and culture tips, as well as lots of information about the special characteristics of Asian girls.

The Famous Thai Girls

Asian Girls : The famous Thai Girls ! by Dao Jones
Thai girls are more conservative than women in many other countries and observe different customs. You will gain a lot of respect and avoid embarrassment in Thailand if you follow Thai social rules and customs.
Be careful not to embarrass your lady. Holding hands, hugging or kissing in public, for example, are not permitted. Never lose your temper or speak out of line in Thailand.
Always show respect for Buddhist monks, temples and statues of the Buddha. Never touch a child's head and never point at anything with your foot. Just a few simple rules to remember.
Thailand is called the land of smiles so smile a lot and enjoy the wonderfully positive atmosphere around you.
Thailand is in the tropical zone. It is quite hot there from April through October but from November to March the climate is very enjoyable. Compared with city dwellers in western countries, city residents in Thailand dress conservatively.
Casual dress is acceptable in resort areas but sandals and shorts are not allowed in the cities, temples and in some restaurants. Always remove your shoes before entering a temple (wat) or someone's house.
When traveling around Thailand, it is a good idea to use private transport and ride in an air-conditioned vehicle. Such transport is very affordable and travel arrangements can be made through a travel agent or at your hotel.
Traveling in comfort is an easy way to see the country and it will give you time to get to know your Thai girl. Let her be your guide and show you the sights. The locals are usually very helpful and you can make friends easily.
Thailand is a great country to visit so relax and enjoy the atmosphere, the food and, of course, the company of the beautiful Thai girls.

Why Travel To Thailand

Asian Girls Dating : Why Travel To Thailand? by Dao Jones
There are many reasons to travel. It can be to relax, have fun, experience, or simply to have a change of pace. Traveling can also be about relationships.
Traveling with a companion/lover is often viewed as the best way to travel as you have dedicated time for one another. But what about those of us who aren't in a relationship? While traveling alone has its advantages, the truth is that traveling without that special someone often just doesn't cut it.
And we know finding that special someone while on vacation generally doesn't happen, so we often end up not traveling at all.
Your concerns might also be even larger than not just having a travel companion/lover.
In the selection of one's life-mate department, you say you dropped the ball? And it turned out to be a major disillusionment, as you couldn't just simply turn around and get another relationship? You went through endless angst replaying the minutiae of what she said and what you said.
It was depressing. Also depressing is the realization that getting "good" at relationships is like anything else: it requires practice. And this kind of practice is often in short supply.
There's a solution for the problems of not having a travel companion, not being in a current relationship, and not getting the needed practice at relationships.
It's called Thailand. And thrown in as a bonus, you will also get tales to regale both friends and strangers with. Think of Thailand as an accelerated relationship course. Within a space of just a few days you can find yourself going from a fast night of sex to having a full time girlfriend.
It's not unusual that over a span of, say, two or three weeks that you connect with a girl like with no other one before; that you may very well be having the most incredible time of your life.
If relationship experiences are what you desire, Thailand is hard to beat. In Thailand you are king. Screw up your relationship? Not great but not a disaster either. You can get solace the next day (actually even sooner than that).
For a modest amount of money you can have a holiday that will be especially memorable, perhaps even life-changing.
Not only can you have all the girls you ever dreamed about, you can have a great time. Be it dancing, drinking, looking at sexy girls, sharing camaraderie, or relaxing at an open-air bar playing pool while having a sweet young thing cooing over you and ministering to your needs by applying cool moist towels to your hot neck and fevered brow.
You will have experiences that you've read about only happening to others in works of fiction. However, the difference this time is that you will be the main character. For real.
And you don't need to be a young stud muffin or have charismatic charm (it certainly doesn't hurt to have these qualities, but it isn't necessary either).
You can simply be you. The only real requirement is for you to want to have a good time. You will be surprised to find just how far a ready smile will take you.
Thailand is all about having fun; a place where every night is Saturday night. You may even discover a new you, that you are really an extrovert at heart; that you can say hello to a perfect stranger and receive a civil reply (this, from other fellow travelers. As for the Thai girls, they will be far more than merely civil...)
What is amazing is the different level of attention you receive over in Thailand. In the West, you may go to a club for the evening. You'll approach girls or they will approach you, but half of the time you either don't click or you don't find them attractive.
If you do find them attractive then you might swap numbers and talk for awhile or, if you're in especially good form that night, you might take them home, have sex, and that's it.
In the bars in Thailand the girls actually want to please, they want to massage you, they want to interact with you and they enjoy doing it. I know what you're thinking, of course you're going to get attention, these girls are after your money and they'll do whatever it takes to get it whether your 22 or 72.
Be that as it may, it's not that simple.
Women's lib hasn't made it over to Thailand. Thai girls aren't loud or brash; they are feminine and attentive. Treat your Thai girl with respect and attention (i.e., just be normal and treat her like a lady) and she will not be able to do enough for you.
She'll put toothpaste on the brush for you and wash your back. In bed she will wrap herself around you. Maybe even more than that. She might not allow you to put food on your plate in a buffet, insisting on doing it for you.
Or she might trim your already-shortened fingernails and clean your ears (you haven't lived until you have truly wax-free ears). She wants you to understand that she appreciates you. Thai girls take care of their men and it's intoxicating.
The sum of what Thailand offers is hard to beat: a rich, complex adventure fueled by randomness. Sit back and enjoy the ride. One of the nice things about Thailand is that it truly is "Up to you" (you'll hear this phrase a lot).
Many men, either by intent or by chance, do end up having relationships to some degree with the women they meet. It's easy to the point of being natural.
So why not combine travel with a relationship? You have everything to gain and only your heart to lose.

Thai Woman Are The Best

Thai Women Are The Best ! by Dao Jones
Read here what on of my friends wrote about Thai women :
Thai women are absolutely delightful. It's true. Nowhere on Earth are women as fun-loving and charming as in Thailand.
Somehow they manage to be sweet and demure too. If you add to this their natural beauty, amazingly soft skin, long silky hair and ultra-feminine looks, you have a combination is totally irresistible. Step onto any Bangkok Skytrain and you can spot at least a dozen women who you might happily spend the rest of your life with.
It doesn't stop there. Thais tend to be sociable, well-adjusted people - even when raised in poverty. Large families and cramped conditions have created a race of people who are very easy to live with. Isolated loners who collect guns and pornography are almost unknown.
Even if you live in a one-room apartment, your tidy and easygoing Thai girlfriend will never get under your feet. Because she's always shared a bed with her sisters, her sleeping manners are impeccable.
As you doze off against her soft cool body, you can forget about the prodding elbows and sharp toenails of space-hogging farang girls. In the west, coming home to your wife normally involves listening to hours of whining and moaning.
To offer solutions would be missing the point - she's just offloading and looking for sympathy. Most men find this behaviour irritating and feel undermined by the implied (or downright overt) criticism. It's little wonder that we have a divorce epidemic.
In contrast, Thai women rarely moan. They are brought up to endure life's little problems without fuss. The result can be domestic bliss - but only if you identify the things that genuinely worry her without having to be told.
Some guys reckon that you need to be psychic but, if you love your girl, looking after her properly should come naturally. It's the fellas who treat their Thai girlfriend like a servant and sexual spittoon who tend to come unstuck.
There seems to be a common misconception that Thai girls are obedient. She may be polite and conflict-averse but in reality she's no doormat. Bullying her will get you nowhere. She uses charm and guile to get what she wants from you. Hopefully, you'll soon work out how to charm her. It's a learning experience that can make you a better and more popular person.
Perhaps the best thing about having a Thai girlfriend is her fun-loving nature. Clowning around is an essential part of the Thai character. If you can adapt to her sense of humour, you will enjoy a happier and more playful relationship than you ever had with a farang woman.
Somehow, she injects fun into the most mundane of tasks - even cleaning the bathroom. Entertaining her is easy and a little effort on your part is rewarded 10 times over. Fancy restaurants and designer clothes are quite unnecessary.
Buy her a new T-shirt, a comic book and a bag of barbequed chicken bums and she will act like a kid on Christmas morning. A couple of Chang beers on the balcony are as enjoyable as a night out.
Thai women are very affectionate. Though public displays of affection are frowned upon, she'll be all over you like a rash at home. When you're out alone, she'll call constantly. Don't even think about switching your phone off or she'll go crazy with worry. Some guys find it annoying (particularly if they're trying to fool around with other girls) but it's never bothered me.
In bed, worldly farang girls definitely have the edge. However, with patience and gentle encouragement, your Thai sweetheart could out-slut the best of them. In relationships with farang girls I've always experienced sexual boredom but, with the right Thai girl, the erotic charge seems to be long-term. Opposites definitely attract.

Why Western girls hate Thailand and especially Thai Girls

Read the story of Marc. He was recently for holiday in Thailand/Phuket :
They deserve all they get!
I was approached by a western girl in Phuket who was obviously having a hard time with the lack of attention. She almost threw herself at me and said quietly in my ear that she and her mate were
out looking to get laid. I was in the star wars nightclub at the time in patong surrounded by few hundred Thai lovelies. Back in England obviously i thought it would be a dream come true to get a girl acting like this.
However in Thailnd we have the upper hand so i decided to use it. I told her if that was the case that she was maybe in the wrong place and perhaps she should try her luck elsewhere.
She looked like i had thrown molten metal in her face. This was beginning to give me far more enjoyment than shagging her ever would. 'What do you mean', she responded.
"I mean look around you' I relpied and pointed to all the Thai girls. I continued to tell her how the arrogance of the western female had become increasingly offputting and thats why most males in the know were now coming to Thailand.
She then tried to come over all softly, softly and tried to explain she wasn't one of these types. She then put her arms around me and whispered 'please' in my ear.
I was loving this. I finally pushed her away and said that i wasn't the slight bit interested. I could see her the tears of humility rise in her eyes and then she stormed off.
I felt a feeling of power wash over me that I'd never felt before. Western females do this to men all the time in the west and it was superb to be able to enact the same punishment.
She was lucky though. i could of got her to buy me drinks all night whilst pretending to be interested and then gone off with someone else and the end of the night!
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Thai Girls VS. Western Girls

Thai Girls vs. Western Girls by Dao Jones
Farang men ('farang' in Thai language = foreigner/westerner) often fall madly in love with the first Thai girl they meet - even if she's a rough street prostitute who doesn't speak English.
Love-sick farang men are queuing up at the altar to tie the knot with their dubious Thai mail-order brides but why don't farang girls stir their passions in the same way?
Thai girls and farang girls could hardly be more different. Put simply, Thai girls are family-orientated and farang girls are increasingly career-orientated. In America, 44% of women aged 15 to 44 have chosen to remain childless and the trend is gathering pace. It's easy to understand their point of view because, as men, we've always pursued our ambitions.
Farang girls enjoy opportunities that their Thai sisters can only dream about. In many ways, life in the West has never been better but it doesn't seem to have translated into greater human happiness. We are witnessing an epidemic of relationship breakdown.
Western men and women seem increasingly ill-matched and unhappy. Statistics reveal that dissatisfied western wives are divorcing their husbands in ever-increasing numbers and they can't seem to find suitable replacements either. Does this mean that we farang fellas are all useless?
No, of course it doesn't and I'm going to explain why. Despite the far-reaching changes in western society, the underlying attitudes of men and women remain broadly the same.
Men still have a provider mentality and women still have an entitlement mentality. Men have always been attracted by youth and beauty and women have always been attracted by wealth and status. Inevitably, the mismatch between our utopian aspirations and the situation on the ground has created problems.
For the sake of his self-esteem, a man needs to be the breadwinner. Taking on the domestic role makes him feel like a failure. Women, on the other hand, feel uncomfortable in the role of provider.
A woman would quickly lose respect for any man who appeared to be living off her. Women still feel entitled to a partner more successful than themselves. Consequently, the more successful a woman becomes, the harder it is to find someone suitable.
On the face of it, men are more easily satisfied. All a man needs is a girl who is cute and kind-hearted. Career status is unimportant - it's her personal qualities that count.
He needs to be her protector and hero. A brash career-orientated woman will never excite a man's passion. If she's pretty, he might humour her for long enough to get into her pants but a long-term relationship is unlikely to succeed.
Women who don't touch a guy's heart but who have soaring expectations are never going to find husbands. Men seeking unconditional love and respect from aggressive ladettes are never going to find wives. As a result, more people than ever are living lonely single lives between brief affairs.
Throughout the western world, we are seeing explosive growth in the number of single person households.
In the UK, for example, census data reveals that the number of single person households grew by 14% between 1991 and 2001. An unhappy world of selfish people living alone is now becoming reality.
Returning to the original question, I think that many farang men fall madly in love with a random Thai bar girl because they've never met a truly feminine woman before.
Men feel a deep need to care for these needy fallen angels and to receive affection in return. Even when the affection is insincere, the compulsion is so great that few farang guys can resist. Thai girls play the role perfectly.
They wield a power over men that their farang sisters have forgotten how to use.
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Dating Tips.

Dating Tips For Women by Dustin Cannon
There is nothing like the thought of a date with a new guy to turn a woman into a bundle of nerves. One of the first things you can do to prepare for a date is to make sure that you look your best in all ways possible. Knowing that you look great on the outside can often boast your confidence on the inside. Remind yourself to be yourself when you are going out with a man you like and keep in mind that you are a worthwhile individual who deserves the best from a potential relationship. Let's look at some more women's dating tips.
If you are not sure about what to talk about when you are dating a new person then going out for a coffee, taking a stroll or going out for supper is probably not the best course of action as it will require a great deal of communication. A movie, a play or a sporting event is always a good bet for new daters as the attention will not be completely on you and therefore you will not have to do as much talking as you would if you shared a meal together.
Trying something new, exotic or adventurous is not advisable for a first date, such as sky diving, or eating Thai food because you want to remain as relaxed and calm as possible. Stick with the tried and true in the beginning. If your date turns into a relationship then you can try new things together down the line.
Always be genuine and sincere towards the other person and put your best foot forward. Calamities do sometimes happen even on dates and if one does occur, take it in stride just as you do with everything else in life. Realize that your future love life will not be determined by one date, whether it is bad or good.
Do not complain or nitpick about everything on a date. Men do not like it when women complain about the temperature in a restaurant, the choice of table, the lighting, the music or when they send back a meal because it is undercooked, overcooked, etc. When you do these things you appear impossible to please and a man is likely to believe that you will judge him just as harshly as you do other things. Relax, stay calm and go with the flow. Allow the date to unfold and enjoy yourself in the process. Having fun is what dating is all about after all!
Never unload all of your emotional baggage on a man right away. You would not want him to do that to you after all so be respectful of that and keep your problems to yourself. Getting to know another person is a lot like peeling an onion and if you reveal something unpleasant too soon you are likely to scare the person away before they have come to learn about all of your positive attributes. Keep talk about your ex boyfriends, your medical problems, your financial problems and the problems you are having with a co worker to yourself and instead show him what is wonderful about you. A date is not a therapy session after all.
Be witty and enthusiastic and let your true personality shine through. Having a good sense of humor also goes a long way in deflection nervous tension for both parties so by all means laugh at his funny stories. Men love possessing the ability to make a woman laugh and women enjoy laughing so go ahead and enjoy the moment!